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Q.
My husband can go without sex for
weeks and when I get near him it
seems like he is not interested in
having sex with me. We have talked
about what is wrong so many times
but he tells me different excuses
why he doesn't approach me and why
he goes on so long without sex. He
masturbates regularly. He says once
a day. I think this is what is
causing our problem. He says he is
too tired at the end of the day to
have sex with me. He tells me he
feels aroused when I come near him
but he never goes for it so he just
masturbates. What is going on?
A.
Sometimes
men can give themselves a better orgasm than when they make love
to a partner. Sometimes men also withhold sex when they are
unhappy with something in the relationship. Is your husband
assertive with you about what he likes, either in or out of bed?
Whatever the problem, he is avoiding the fact that it is causing
you distress. You need to be assertive with him, also, and tell
him what change you would like to see in your sexual
relationship. Ask him if he is willing to help you. Let him know
that you'd like to try to make the change on your own, but if
the two of you can't make the change together within, say, 6
months, you would like to seek some
outside help. Don't threaten or criticize him. Let him know
you are in this together. His reaction will tell you what the
next step needs to be. - Answer provided by Stephanie
Buehler, PsyD, Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist,
drbuehler@cox.net,
www.thebuehlerinstitute.com. |
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